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At first thought, finding a wedding gift does not seem to be that hard. Just run out and buy a toaster or a crock pot and you think you have the perfect wedding gift. Well, these days choosing a wedding gift of traditional kitchen appliance probably won't be the perfect gift. Here are a few tips on wedding etiquette gift giving to help you know how to buy a wedding gift.

Check out Their Registry

Many couples will register at their favorite stores and/or they will use a universal gift registry where they can list gift ideas from many places. Typically the couple has spent some time in choosing the gifts to list on their registry and purchasing a gift from the wedding registry should always be a safe gift. Typically when utilizing the gift registry you will have a variety of items to choose from that maybe from stores you can buy from in person and online websites. Couples just starting out will list gift ideas for starting their new home like kitchenware, bed and bath needs, and some will even give ideas for décor items. If you purchase the gift directly from the store where the couple is registered make sure you follow the stores procedure for gift registry purchases. This will ensure that the gift is "marked off" the list so no one else purchases the same gift. If the couple used a universal gift registry, ensure you also follow the procedure for "checking off" your gift.

Who is the couple?

If you decide not to go with a gift on the gift registry or the couple did not set up a wedding gift registry, give some thought as to the interests of the couple. A wedding gift that appeals to both the bride and groom is important. What types of things do they enjoy doing together - do they enjoy nature or prefer city attractions? If the couple is close friends of yours, then this should be easy, but if you are not intimately acquainted with the couple, ask questions. Talk to the couples friends and family to get ideas on types of wedding gifts that would be good. Other considerations would be if they are a young couple starting a new home where gifts for the kitchen like appliances or cooking essentials are appropriate gifts. If they are a couple who has already had households set up, or a second marriage, the types of gifts needed are different. This is where talking to friends or family is helpful and could mean the difference in a gift that is "perfect" and a gift that is returned or re-gifted.

Sharing the Expense

Sometimes the perfect wedding gift is an expensive gift. One that you can't afford. Some couples will put higher ticket items on their registry to allow a group to purchase. These are usually luxury gifts they could never afford themselves. This will allow a few people to go in together and purchase a gift. Sharing the appreciation from the couple is OK when you know that the gift really is "perfect" and you are probably helping out others in sharing the expense.

The Flip Side

Today many couples are choosing to have non traditional weddings. This could be for several reasons, being socially conscience, a second marriage, or the expense of a wedding. Your wedding gift should also reflect the wishes of the couple. If they have not specified a registry, ask the bride or a family member. If the couple has requested no wedding gifts, a donation to a charity in their name would be appropriate. On the budget side, creating a scrapbook with photographs and memories of the couple as a gift would be cherished. You can also offer your time and/or services when it is a second marriage or no gifts have been requested.

If You Don't Know the Couple Very Well

Checking out the gift registry would probably be your best option. If you don't see a gift you would like to give or the couple doesn't have a registry a generic wedding gift would also work. Gifts like picture frames, vases, monogrammed bath robes, or a gift basket filled with fruit and cheese will still send well wishes to the couple.

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Always Include the Gift Receipt

Even if you feel you have chosen the perfect wedding gift for the couple, always include the gift receipt. It is much better that the couple can return the gift, if needed, then have it sit in the back of the closet or end up in their first garage sale.

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The top gift questions asked by wedding guests

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How soon should I send a gift?

Preferably, send your gift to the bride before the wedding or to the couple soon thereafter. In some regions gifts are brought to the reception and placed on a special table. Contrary to a current rumor that you have a year to send a gift, it really should be sent soon after you receive your invitation or, on the outside, within three months of the wedding.

Do I have to choose something from the bridal registry?

No. The registry is a convenience for guests, not a mandate. It’s a good idea to take a look, though, to get a sense for the couple’s needs and style.

Am I supposed to buy a gift that costs as much as what the hosts spend on each person at the wedding?

No. This modern myth causes considerable anxiety for guests, but it is simply untrue.

How much should I spend?

There is no rule, so it is entirely up to you. The amount you spend is strictly a matter of your budget, how close you are to the bride and groom, and what you think they would like. While it would be tempting to assign dollar values, everyone’s financial circumstances and relationships are different. Let your affection for the bride and groom and your budget be your guide.

Is it appropriate to give money?

Yes, money may be given as cash or by check. Cash gifts are often just right for couples who have already established their households or are saving for something special. In fact, in some cultures it is the traditional gift. That said, if you are uncomfortable giving money, it is always okay to give a gift of your choice (from the couple’s registry or not, as you like).

How do I give the couple a gift of money?

A monetary gift is either sent directly to the couple with a personal note, or into the financial gift registry. When a gift is sent to a financial institution or a travel agency where the couple has registered, the couple receives notification of the gift and its amount.

Can I send something I already own?

Yes, but only as long as it is in good condition—not a castoff—and you’re confident that the couple will like the item. Think heirlooms.

Don’t I have up to a year after the wedding to send a gift?

No, this is another myth. Gifts should be sent before the wedding or as soon after the wedding date as possible. But late is better than never so send your gift when you can.

Can I take my present to the wedding?

You can, but only if this is the tradition in the couple’s culture or community. If you’re sending a gift from one of the couple’s registries, it will be clearly listed where the gift is to be sent.

May I send a group gift?

Married couples and nuclear families generally send one gift, as do couples who live together. Group giving, when guests pool their resources to purchase a more elaborate gift, is also fine.

How do I know if my gift arrived?

A thank-you note from the couple is your best guarantee. You can also ask for delivery confirmation on gifts sent by mail or commercial delivery service.

What do I do if I don’t receive a thank-you note?

Give the couple a reasonable amount of time to send their thank-you—usually three months post-wedding. After that time, you’re free to ask if the gift was received.

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